"Compromise doesnt mean that you lose and someone wins. It's just that you value the relationship more than the ego"
Relationships are tested by so many challenges. Surely every relationship that exists may it be a father-daughter mother-son, sister-sister, friend-friend, bf-gf, husband-wife or whatever it is, every relationship have once had the rough ride of the relationship. There were ups and downs that shaken the foundation of the relationship but at the end of the day,thecommitment of both parties to fix everything, the willingness and understanding each other is what makes relationships work especially if both sides want it.
Sometimes due to differences, relationships reaches a point were in they fight, they fight for what they think is right for them, so the endless talks, dirty words were said even if the people saying such doesnt really mean it, It was just an outburst of what they are feeling. People especially females who are known for their emotional side while the gentlemen here were so rational that really bugs the female society it was as if they dont care about what the other party
is feeling.
Sometimes both parties wants to dominate the other. There is an endless cycle of us as being inate to all humans, we alwas want to be superior to the other. People always compete. compete within their partners or their self. As this characteristics goes on, we now witness the intervention of PRIDE/EGO in the scene. Pride or ego which is define in the dictionaries as the feeling of superiority above the others. This ego hinders us to recognize what we really feel deep inside especially during times that we are caught on a fight with our partner.
In a relationship, as they say you are partners, you are each other's breath of fresh air, you are each other's other half and in a relationship it takes two to tango. Both of you should recognized the rhtyhm, the tempo of the song to mix it up and make it appropriate for the dance. It is a partnership. You make each other look good. So whenever fights challenges your team spirit, dont let your egocontrol you and get the best of you.
Compromise is not about hearing yourself alone in the situation instead it is a matter of listening on what the both of you have to say. As individuals, always take considerations how your partner thinks, what s/he thinks and his/her needs. You need to hear each other out and settle things. You have to meet in the middle. Always think that there is no superior and subordinate, instead you are equal. Try and do find the things that could make you solve the problem or issues without stepping to each other instead have the agreement.
In every fight we do encounter, always think of what you could loose and could gain from the situation. Always think of whatyou can still keep. Think of this, you may have won the issue but you lose a friend, can you take that? Be brave enough to admit that you are wrong, accept what's the reality rather than living in your fantasy land :) Ego will be worthless if you dont have friends, family around you :) Always keep that relationship, intact :)
"Kapag may nakaaway ka o kasamaan ng loob, hindi dahil ikaw yung bumaba, humingi ng tawad at umintindi ikaw na ang talo. pero mas pinakita mo na handa ka kalimutan ang pride mo para lang sa pagmamahal mo sa taong nakaaway o nakasamaan mo ng loob. Minsan
tumatahimik ka na lang para hindi na mas lumala ang sitwasyon may panahon para sa lahat"
"Kung kaya magsakripisyo, magsakripisyo. Hindi man makita ng iba, alam mo sa sarili mo umintindi, nagmahal at tinanggap mo ang nangyari"
Sometimes due to differences, relationships reaches a point were in they fight, they fight for what they think is right for them, so the endless talks, dirty words were said even if the people saying such doesnt really mean it, It was just an outburst of what they are feeling. People especially females who are known for their emotional side while the gentlemen here were so rational that really bugs the female society it was as if they dont care about what the other party
is feeling.
Sometimes both parties wants to dominate the other. There is an endless cycle of us as being inate to all humans, we alwas want to be superior to the other. People always compete. compete within their partners or their self. As this characteristics goes on, we now witness the intervention of PRIDE/EGO in the scene. Pride or ego which is define in the dictionaries as the feeling of superiority above the others. This ego hinders us to recognize what we really feel deep inside especially during times that we are caught on a fight with our partner.
In a relationship, as they say you are partners, you are each other's breath of fresh air, you are each other's other half and in a relationship it takes two to tango. Both of you should recognized the rhtyhm, the tempo of the song to mix it up and make it appropriate for the dance. It is a partnership. You make each other look good. So whenever fights challenges your team spirit, dont let your egocontrol you and get the best of you.
Compromise is not about hearing yourself alone in the situation instead it is a matter of listening on what the both of you have to say. As individuals, always take considerations how your partner thinks, what s/he thinks and his/her needs. You need to hear each other out and settle things. You have to meet in the middle. Always think that there is no superior and subordinate, instead you are equal. Try and do find the things that could make you solve the problem or issues without stepping to each other instead have the agreement.
In every fight we do encounter, always think of what you could loose and could gain from the situation. Always think of whatyou can still keep. Think of this, you may have won the issue but you lose a friend, can you take that? Be brave enough to admit that you are wrong, accept what's the reality rather than living in your fantasy land :) Ego will be worthless if you dont have friends, family around you :) Always keep that relationship, intact :)
"Kapag may nakaaway ka o kasamaan ng loob, hindi dahil ikaw yung bumaba, humingi ng tawad at umintindi ikaw na ang talo. pero mas pinakita mo na handa ka kalimutan ang pride mo para lang sa pagmamahal mo sa taong nakaaway o nakasamaan mo ng loob. Minsan
tumatahimik ka na lang para hindi na mas lumala ang sitwasyon may panahon para sa lahat"
"Kung kaya magsakripisyo, magsakripisyo. Hindi man makita ng iba, alam mo sa sarili mo umintindi, nagmahal at tinanggap mo ang nangyari"
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