Love on Age Gap

  What is right? What is wrong? That's two of the mysterious questions in LOVE. When it is right? When it is wrong? Young lovers will ask, who should tell which is right? and which is wrong? Love is something shallow yet deep topic to talk about. Mababaw kasi lahat naman na-iinlove. Lahat may perception sa love, sa pagibig. Ang iba may masayang experience dito, ang iba may hindi masyadong magandang karanasan. Mababaw kasi kahit kailan naman hindi naman magkakasundo ang puso at isip mo sa dapat mo gawin especially when it comes about love. Deep, kasi may iba naman na ang hirap complicated to talk about :) Deep coz there were different stories, each story is unique and colorful as it could be :) Love has different faces.

    Age gap, kailan mo nga naman ba masasabi na mali na nagmahal ka ng mas matanda sayo? Masama ba na nagmahal ka na ng parang tatay o nanay mo na? Usually when you know someone who fall for someone who is older than her or him who fits like his or her father already people think of that person is a gold digger, or just want something from the partner. Masama ba na nagmahal ka ng mas bata sayo? Na parang kapatid mo?People will think that you are only taking advantage of your partner. Should people judge you if you happen to be widow and find someone who is at the age of your children? Is it wrong when the heart decides to fall in love? Should someone blame you on it? or does someone has the right to judge your personality for it? Eh bakit sabi nila, pag nagmahal ka walang "MAS" equal ang lahat. Pero bakit ang mga tao judgemental masyado. Sabi nga nila, age is just a number.

    Honestly, I witness so many May-December love affairs and I see them work against everyone around them who are not in favor of their relationship. I am also one of those poeple whose mind were narrow and that is because I use my mind and I dont listen to my heart. I salute those people who push through despite what people thinks about it, they simply prove those people wrong. It will never be wrong as long as you love but one reminder i wish you will keep is still use your mind to weigh things out :)  Some it works especially for those couples who are determined to make it through and spent forever with each other. Relationships are hard work and as I always say it takes two mature people who talks and listen to each other to make it work. For some it doesnt why? because there were so many factors to consider 1.) INTEREST. You are coming from different generations, you want different things, you live with different things. 2.) FRIENDS. You have different age of friends in that one you will awkward whenever you are with each other's gropd of peers 3.) MATURITY LEVEL. Coming from different generation of life, one has more experience more than the other that's where couples having the may-december love affair have complications and differences comes along.

    But for me, every relationship has its own downs and ups may it be with the same age, older partner or younger partner or whatever it is all about the two of you :) you have to WORK IT OUT TOGETHER even if its hard to understand each other for quite some time :)