-Dont make someone wait just because you will-
*Waiting comes from a promise. A promise that someone will be back or someone will change for the better in reciprocal, the other party needs to wait for things to happen, or for that someone to come back into his/her life. Waiting can mean FOREVER but it could also mean just for NOW.Two different periods,a real test to someone's patience and faith. Forever could be the most painful word you'll ever say coz for some there's no such thing as forever there's only one life time to make the best of everything.While now is something indefinite, how long or what is the coverage of that "now"? Will it mean how many months? or years perhaps? Waiting is really a painful thing especially for those who expects and thos who still hopes and hold on. Waiting could even mean your whole span of existence in this unfair world but the decison still belongs to that someone who will wait, on how long s/he will wait for whatever it is s/he is waiting for.
*If you are the type of person who is patient and could promise 101% to fully wait for that someone then dont make someone commit the same thingjust because you can. Simply because s/he is NOT you. You've grown up differently, you have different perceptions and goals in life. You can probably wait for him if he ask you to , BUT dont force or ask him to wait for you let him decide on that, it is his decision, it is his life, his time. :) You know what it feels how heart breaking, painful, but for some it was enjoyable but point here is that you know how it feels yet you want the othe rparty wait for you? It ws as simple as you felt the pain you almost didnt managed it yet you want him/her to experience the same thing? Would you instead let him/her experience another thing, something memorable rather than that?
Klareesse says: It will always be your choice to wait for someone or not. Dont let someone force you to wait for them, what if they never go back aight? You'll regret the time you didnt used as you were waiting for that someone. Make it your choice to wait for someone, your decision, your own free will. and if time comes you realize s/he is not worth waiting for anymore or even from the vey start then stop waiting :) Go on with your life without that person,that thing, that something. I think if the person you are waiting for is worth it, your call, your choice if you'll wait for him/her, till when you'll wait for that something :) But its good to know when to give up, when to stop waiting. Its for your own good.
How will you know if s/he is worth waiting for? Listen to your heart, understand your mind :) If your heart and mind cameon the same page then you have your decision.
*Waiting comes from a promise. A promise that someone will be back or someone will change for the better in reciprocal, the other party needs to wait for things to happen, or for that someone to come back into his/her life. Waiting can mean FOREVER but it could also mean just for NOW.Two different periods,a real test to someone's patience and faith. Forever could be the most painful word you'll ever say coz for some there's no such thing as forever there's only one life time to make the best of everything.While now is something indefinite, how long or what is the coverage of that "now"? Will it mean how many months? or years perhaps? Waiting is really a painful thing especially for those who expects and thos who still hopes and hold on. Waiting could even mean your whole span of existence in this unfair world but the decison still belongs to that someone who will wait, on how long s/he will wait for whatever it is s/he is waiting for.
*If you are the type of person who is patient and could promise 101% to fully wait for that someone then dont make someone commit the same thingjust because you can. Simply because s/he is NOT you. You've grown up differently, you have different perceptions and goals in life. You can probably wait for him if he ask you to , BUT dont force or ask him to wait for you let him decide on that, it is his decision, it is his life, his time. :) You know what it feels how heart breaking, painful, but for some it was enjoyable but point here is that you know how it feels yet you want the othe rparty wait for you? It ws as simple as you felt the pain you almost didnt managed it yet you want him/her to experience the same thing? Would you instead let him/her experience another thing, something memorable rather than that?
Klareesse says: It will always be your choice to wait for someone or not. Dont let someone force you to wait for them, what if they never go back aight? You'll regret the time you didnt used as you were waiting for that someone. Make it your choice to wait for someone, your decision, your own free will. and if time comes you realize s/he is not worth waiting for anymore or even from the vey start then stop waiting :) Go on with your life without that person,that thing, that something. I think if the person you are waiting for is worth it, your call, your choice if you'll wait for him/her, till when you'll wait for that something :) But its good to know when to give up, when to stop waiting. Its for your own good.
How will you know if s/he is worth waiting for? Listen to your heart, understand your mind :) If your heart and mind cameon the same page then you have your decision.
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