This I only have to say:
Past is past as they say. We cant do naything about it, but what past can do on us is to have the results of our past in ourpresent or in oour furture. Our past will simply bugs us in one way or another. Our past experiences will give us set backs,streed you out, hang ups and have the bitterness within us. Our future or current decisions and actions were the results of our past may it be good or bad ones. Some will not do the same past all over again especially their mistakes.
In love, especially someone ever had a bad experience on it like they were CHEATED, PLAYED AROUND, FOOLED, LEFT ALL ALONE AFTER GETTING SOMETHING, USED and other reasons usually end up being so depressed and just dont believe in love anymore. Some just dont love that much worst some just forget on how to love ending doing the same thing that there past have done on them just to be even. For some who were depressed, they end their lives, some ruin their life and forget on how to live a life.
For me, if the past love affair matters on your current relationship? Well, I think YES. Yes for awhile just for each one of you to understand what you went through and what to expect. For me it was a sign of being open and being ready to have another commitment. According to a book Ive read, "It takes courage to talk about the past especially the not so good details of it. And talking about it makes it easier for the individual to feel liberated from the stress" It matters because your pasts make you or even break you in one way or another. It was good to share your experiences with one another. But it will only work if the both of you are willing to listen and hear each other out :)
It takes two to tango, and it takes two mature people to make the relationship work and last. That's why being mature to handle the relationship is about acceptimg each other's past relationships and past experiences and It will only come through if you talk about it once in awhile (Not all the time, maybe once or twice). Remember be open minded about it, coz after your past only serve a purpose and that is for you to learn from it and not to repeat it again. You'll talk about this not to make one JEALOUS or feel INSECURE about it. Dont make your past relationship your STANDARD, which is the common sickness of many...they keep on comparing the past with the current one which is WRONG...You've moved on na aight?
You can talk about the past to SHARE experiences, learnings, thoughts not to COMPARE.
Past is past as they say. We cant do naything about it, but what past can do on us is to have the results of our past in ourpresent or in oour furture. Our past will simply bugs us in one way or another. Our past experiences will give us set backs,streed you out, hang ups and have the bitterness within us. Our future or current decisions and actions were the results of our past may it be good or bad ones. Some will not do the same past all over again especially their mistakes.
In love, especially someone ever had a bad experience on it like they were CHEATED, PLAYED AROUND, FOOLED, LEFT ALL ALONE AFTER GETTING SOMETHING, USED and other reasons usually end up being so depressed and just dont believe in love anymore. Some just dont love that much worst some just forget on how to love ending doing the same thing that there past have done on them just to be even. For some who were depressed, they end their lives, some ruin their life and forget on how to live a life.
For me, if the past love affair matters on your current relationship? Well, I think YES. Yes for awhile just for each one of you to understand what you went through and what to expect. For me it was a sign of being open and being ready to have another commitment. According to a book Ive read, "It takes courage to talk about the past especially the not so good details of it. And talking about it makes it easier for the individual to feel liberated from the stress" It matters because your pasts make you or even break you in one way or another. It was good to share your experiences with one another. But it will only work if the both of you are willing to listen and hear each other out :)
It takes two to tango, and it takes two mature people to make the relationship work and last. That's why being mature to handle the relationship is about acceptimg each other's past relationships and past experiences and It will only come through if you talk about it once in awhile (Not all the time, maybe once or twice). Remember be open minded about it, coz after your past only serve a purpose and that is for you to learn from it and not to repeat it again. You'll talk about this not to make one JEALOUS or feel INSECURE about it. Dont make your past relationship your STANDARD, which is the common sickness of many...they keep on comparing the past with the current one which is WRONG...You've moved on na aight?
You can talk about the past to SHARE experiences, learnings, thoughts not to COMPARE.
This is my opinion, and I am entitled to it. If you are against my thoughts, well you are entitled on your own opinion and judgement :)
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