IT'S BETTER FOR TWO PEOPLE TO BREAK UP SO THEY CAN GROW UP
IT TAKES GROWN UPS TO MAKE RELATIONSHIP WORK (:
-From the movie, "One More Chance"
*In every serious relationship,both parties usually envisioned themselves spending the rest of their lives with the one they are with. They have dreamed and even plan their futures together. From the businesses they'll have, their family in the future, the children and everything. There are lots of happy times especially during the start of the relationship, it was as if they ask it to last forever and hope they could stop the time. The couple would always want to be together most of the time. But as time goes by, as they get the chance to know each other further complications challenge their relationship and partnership. Fights and misunderstanding will try to burn the bridge that connects and unites the couple together. Issues will try to get the best of their emotions until one gives in. But after every fights, misunderstandings the couple find a way to work things out as both of them wishes to stay strong and be together still.
*In every relationship, fights,differences and misunderstandings are part of the cycle. Relationships are incomplete without the test of the fights and misunderstanding. But sometimes, too much fight and misunderstadning leads to something negative or positive its how you look at it. Both parties or either of them decided to end the relationship while the other just accept and respect the decision of the other half. Break ups come along and break the hearts of both parties. This is due to fights and misunderstanding that tests the strength of relationship and proved that it isnt strong enough to survive, break ups happen.
*Sometimes, break ups just give space to the couple to think and breathe as individuals. In this process, they find their individualities, their strengths, short comings, regrets and give them time to really think what they want to happen. Being together in a relationship should give you the opportunity to g row as an individual and as part of a team you two compliment each other, but if this is not where your relationship is going well I think right now you've been thinking of working things out for the two of you as you help each other or breaking each others heart and proceed with life without the relationship, commmitment atatchment from the other half.
*The line above caught my attention in the film "One More Chance" starring Bea Alonzo and John Lloyd Cruz.Well, the first time I saw the film It was indeed a heart warming story and it will surely bring you to tears especially when you had your heart broken or you relate yourself to the film.It totally makes sense to me, when I saw myself in that movie, my mom even relate me with the character of Basha, and some of my friends tells me that somehow they see me in that movie. With what I've been through, I guess that's how life goes. ( To all the people who knew me, knew my story I know you understand my pain, my heart ache and my thoughts on this )
* Going back to the line, I agree with such line. In a partnership you should learn to trust respect understand the movements, thoughts of your partner, his/her everything. And as partners you should help each other grow in the aspects of life may it be spiritually, emotionally, financially, physically and more. Maturing isnt done in fast phase, as time goes by, as things hit you, you learn more of life and mature from that. But if in your relationship you are no longer growing as individual, it was as if y ou are stock in one corner and you cant do what you really want coz something is hindering you, and you think the relationship is hindering your to grow then try to work things out but if it didnt, move forward, leave the relationship. Its not being selfish, rather it is about loving yourself more. It is a decision you made to free one another just like birds. It is giving yourselves an opportunity to grow on your on, explore things, experience life outside the relationship. Its not about choosing to hurt the other, it was more of choosing of a better way for each other's separate lives.
*As break ups happen, you free each other. Free as bird flying in the woods, in the sky looking for answers for your questions, finding the meaning of life, finding yourselves. In this sense, you can grow up. You became much sure of things you want and need in your life. You became more confident of your life and on which direction you want it to go. You become more mature on handling situations as time and challenges mold you to be a tougher one.
*If one day, in God's help brought you back together and the love is still there why not rekindle it? This time you are much mature and sure of things. You know what you want and in this case you can understand more of each other's needs and wants. Each one of y ou would be sensitive alot better to one another. Indeed, young adults, children who are not mature enough should not engage in a commitment, in a fight they dont even know totally. It takes grown up to make a LASTING RELATIONSHIP and COMMITMENT.
Klareesse says: I dont regret loving and sharing my life with that someone even if at the end we didnt managed to handle our relationship that much. That experience helped gain more, more than what I've loss.It was indeed like a fairy tale, too good to be true partnership, but with such I've learned more of life :)
IT TAKES GROWN UPS TO MAKE RELATIONSHIP WORK (:
-From the movie, "One More Chance"
*In every serious relationship,both parties usually envisioned themselves spending the rest of their lives with the one they are with. They have dreamed and even plan their futures together. From the businesses they'll have, their family in the future, the children and everything. There are lots of happy times especially during the start of the relationship, it was as if they ask it to last forever and hope they could stop the time. The couple would always want to be together most of the time. But as time goes by, as they get the chance to know each other further complications challenge their relationship and partnership. Fights and misunderstanding will try to burn the bridge that connects and unites the couple together. Issues will try to get the best of their emotions until one gives in. But after every fights, misunderstandings the couple find a way to work things out as both of them wishes to stay strong and be together still.
*In every relationship, fights,differences and misunderstandings are part of the cycle. Relationships are incomplete without the test of the fights and misunderstanding. But sometimes, too much fight and misunderstadning leads to something negative or positive its how you look at it. Both parties or either of them decided to end the relationship while the other just accept and respect the decision of the other half. Break ups come along and break the hearts of both parties. This is due to fights and misunderstanding that tests the strength of relationship and proved that it isnt strong enough to survive, break ups happen.
*Sometimes, break ups just give space to the couple to think and breathe as individuals. In this process, they find their individualities, their strengths, short comings, regrets and give them time to really think what they want to happen. Being together in a relationship should give you the opportunity to g row as an individual and as part of a team you two compliment each other, but if this is not where your relationship is going well I think right now you've been thinking of working things out for the two of you as you help each other or breaking each others heart and proceed with life without the relationship, commmitment atatchment from the other half.
*The line above caught my attention in the film "One More Chance" starring Bea Alonzo and John Lloyd Cruz.Well, the first time I saw the film It was indeed a heart warming story and it will surely bring you to tears especially when you had your heart broken or you relate yourself to the film.It totally makes sense to me, when I saw myself in that movie, my mom even relate me with the character of Basha, and some of my friends tells me that somehow they see me in that movie. With what I've been through, I guess that's how life goes. ( To all the people who knew me, knew my story I know you understand my pain, my heart ache and my thoughts on this )
* Going back to the line, I agree with such line. In a partnership you should learn to trust respect understand the movements, thoughts of your partner, his/her everything. And as partners you should help each other grow in the aspects of life may it be spiritually, emotionally, financially, physically and more. Maturing isnt done in fast phase, as time goes by, as things hit you, you learn more of life and mature from that. But if in your relationship you are no longer growing as individual, it was as if y ou are stock in one corner and you cant do what you really want coz something is hindering you, and you think the relationship is hindering your to grow then try to work things out but if it didnt, move forward, leave the relationship. Its not being selfish, rather it is about loving yourself more. It is a decision you made to free one another just like birds. It is giving yourselves an opportunity to grow on your on, explore things, experience life outside the relationship. Its not about choosing to hurt the other, it was more of choosing of a better way for each other's separate lives.
*As break ups happen, you free each other. Free as bird flying in the woods, in the sky looking for answers for your questions, finding the meaning of life, finding yourselves. In this sense, you can grow up. You became much sure of things you want and need in your life. You became more confident of your life and on which direction you want it to go. You become more mature on handling situations as time and challenges mold you to be a tougher one.
*If one day, in God's help brought you back together and the love is still there why not rekindle it? This time you are much mature and sure of things. You know what you want and in this case you can understand more of each other's needs and wants. Each one of y ou would be sensitive alot better to one another. Indeed, young adults, children who are not mature enough should not engage in a commitment, in a fight they dont even know totally. It takes grown up to make a LASTING RELATIONSHIP and COMMITMENT.
Klareesse says: I dont regret loving and sharing my life with that someone even if at the end we didnt managed to handle our relationship that much. That experience helped gain more, more than what I've loss.It was indeed like a fairy tale, too good to be true partnership, but with such I've learned more of life :)
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